banana bread

How to: unwind

4:13 PM

The last week has been... Well, it's been stressful to say the least. So I decided it was time to take some time for myself. I think self love is so underrated these days and more people should just take a break in their busy lives to take care of themselves for a bit. I felt that I needed some down time, some time to put all the events of the last week out of my mind so I could get back to focusing on what's actually important to me. Refocus on who I was and who I want to be. Accept the events of the last week and put them out of my mind.

Seeing that I'm sure I'm not the only person out there feeling stressed, frustrated, disappointed and let's be honest, a little sad, I thought I'd share with you some of my favorite things to do to unwind.

Yoga 

Lots of people have been getting into yoga recently and I've found that for me it's one of the best ways of de-stress. Apparently meditating is good too, but I think for now I'll stick to yoga. I usually put on one of my Spotify playlists, roll out my mat and look up a yoga video on YouTube. My absolute favorite human doing yoga on YouTube is Adriene. She is just the sweetest person ever and I always feel so calm after doing one of her videos.

Bubble bath 

Ladies, (and gentlemen) I'm sure you'll agree with me that there is nothing better than getting into a nice hot bath after a shitty day. I'll pour myself a nice cool drink or make a steaming cup of tea, depending on how shit the day was, and run a bubble bath.


Some might think it's 'too much' but I love lighting some candles. It gives everything a spa-like feel. Don't forget to take a good book with you and some music so you don't get bored in there. Then let your body sink into that warm water. Let it warm you right through. Let is soften that heart that the world has turned to stone.

Baking 

Baking is another one of those things that help distract you from your troubles. For a while you lose yourself in the process of creating creating something yummy.


If you have some ripe bananas lying around why don't you try making banana bread? Perfect treat to have with your cup of tea and a good book.

Binge watching Friends

This is hands down one of my all time favorite things to do. When I'm happy, when I'm sad, when I'm procrastinating Friends is my go-to TV show. I might have seen every episode about ten times but that doesn't mean that I can't watch them another ten times. So cuddle up and get lost in the problems of the six Friends and maybe cry a little because their life is something you will never have.


I hope this was slightly helpful... It's been a hard week but doing these things have certainly made it better. Oh, and one more thing. Meet up with your own friends. Talk to them about how you're feeling. Build strong friendships. Maybe your life won't be like in Friends, but you might get close.

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Who am I?

10:00 PM

Am I the only one who has these deep moments of self-reflection? And then coming to the conclusion that you have no idea who the fuck you actually are?  

Sometimes I hear can hear myself saying things and I just think: When did I become this person? Have I always been this person? Am I truly such a bitch? In those moments I wish I could erase people's impression of me, so I can start fresh. Because man would I love to go back and do things differently. 

So when these not so rare moments of self-reflection come along, I have the biggest urge to talk about it. I want to know if other people see me the way I see me.  Do they think I've changed? Do they also have moments like this? Do they feel like this about themselves or am I the only one?  

Now you think that I would just go up to a friend and ask them about it, casually bring it up in a conversation. But that's not as easy as it sounds. Because what if they blow you off or think you're weird? What if they actually have confidence and like themselves and have no idea what you're even talking about? Even with some of your closest friends it's hard to bring up things that are so confronting. Because what if they say that you have changed? What if they tell you that yeah, sometimes you're kind of a bitch? What if they do actually see you like you see yourself?  Maybe that's what we're really afraid of.  It's not the act of asking someone if they think about the same things you do that's so terrifying, it's knowing that they might say yes. 

My point is, it's hard to ask other people what they really think of you. It's hard for other people to be honest about it and tell you. And it's hard to figure out who you are and who you want to be.

 I want to figure out who I am. I want to discover who I want to be. 

This will not happen over night but it will happen with baby steps. 

So from now on I'm going to try my best to hold my tongue a bit more. 
Think carefully about the words I'm putting into the world before I say them.  

Hopefully that's a step in the right direction.  



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